Strong bankers for success in this relationship
Differing levels of emotional intellect means they both learn a good measure of self control from one another, which makes them more well-rounded individuals for having met each other. Family life is very loving and these are two people most likely to raise happy and sensitive children.
Meet each other at a bad or tumultuous time in either one’s life, and they will repel each other or regret having gotten involved. It is not possible to leave a Scorpio-Cancer disagreement without deep wounds.
Can it work between Scorpio Woman and Cancer Man?
It definitely can and arguably should always be made to. These two water signs can protect themselves from their own self, and the wider world at large. The benefits far outweigh anything else.
It seems unusual for a bond between broody Scorpio and fearful Cancer, but an encounter between their two streams will bring out wholesome and sunny futures for both. When Cancer male first encounters Scorpio female, it will seem as though they already knew each other for a lifetime.
The deep canals that Cancer has to offer match Scorpio’s own pedigree for emotion and can definitely make her feel as though she is warped into an outer-body experience. They both possess so much emotional intelligence that they’ve often forgotten solutions to old problems the rest of us are still stuck on.
Scorpio and Cancer are afflicted with sensitivities that mean they overcome emotional quandaries early on in their life, where others might have to face them in middle age. For that reason, any date between these two often involves head-nodding and understanding without words. It is a meeting of two energies where Cancer spots enough depth in Scorpio’s alluring eyes to know he wants more.
She has already been sending him signals to stir these feelings within him, but she will have to get used to initiating romance between them as Cancer is rarely known to come out of his shell without asking. The emotional stakes are particularly high between these two, so she shouldn’t take his cautious action as an insult.
Rather, it should be re-enforcing to her self esteem that this is a man who seriously takes into account a three-dimensional view of everything she brings to the table. She has been so used to dedicating herself to past lovers without seeing what she wants reflected back, but Cancer male will not let her down.
They can help each other to build careers, personal lives and bring creativity to every aspect of their life in parallel to one another. Mixing business with pleasure comes naturally to these two, because they’ve messed up in doing so with everyone else. They have learnt the lessons to get it right with each other, in different ways that could open their eyes to learning little tricks from one another.
Scorpio will discover Cancer male has a well-practiced emotional mastery that brings harmony to her swinging moods. No one knows fluctuating emotions better than Cancer himself, so he will find no judgement on his bad days when knowing Scorpio offers him a lap in which to rest his head. She soothes his temples and whispers words of strength and encouragement, until they retire to the bedroom to express their love for each other without words.
It is likely these two will create a very large family because, when you are this deeply connected to one another, why stop short of giving such a wonderful gift? With Scorpio, you are “in for a penny in for a pound” and Cancer wouldn’t want it any other way.
They bring a certain sense of honour and integrity to their courteous and ritual praise of each other in social settings. They often speak admirably of their partner in front of friends or hold their silence when angry with one another. Scorpio and Cancer learn to keep their disputes and secrets indoors, finding relief in building a family of relations they can trust to pick them up when they fall.
Before she met Cancer, Scorpio could have found herself in a bad place where she spills her negative impressions of any and everyone to make herself seem untrustworthy to close friends. But, should she encounter Cancer in a settled space, she will have enough respect for his well-meaning approach and enduring affection to learn the value of trust behind closed doors. He also has to learn to overcome his caution as a bachelor, for there are few better chances to meet someone who will truly bring out the best in you besides Scorpio-Cancer.
They may not be the all-conquering, materialistic social climbers that Scorpio would have fantasized about with others but they won’t even remember what happiness once pretended to look like, as soon as they intertwine in each other’s capacity for endless love. This is the real definition of love in the sacrificial and giving sense of the word. They have all the answers they will ever need in their family unit and have the creativity to make a lasting impression on the world.
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